Sleepless in Balsam
That was me – Wednesday, Thursday and Friday nights. Couldn’t turn off my mind from pursuing one thought after another.
Nothing bad, just the possibility of another job for next year.
And it wasn’t a sense of joyful anticipation that fueled my thoughts, but a chewing on the pros and cons.
Relief finally came via reminders of Truth.
- When I woke up Saturday morning REALLY tired despite lying in bed for 8 hours, the Holy Spirit gently chided me that I had failed to take advantage of Almighty God’s loving command to cast all my cares on Him.
- Christian Community provided more light on what was True.
Anne and Wes were here for the weekend. Listening to Anne describe her thought process on one of her issues (and what turned out to be a lie she had swallowed) helped me see some presuppositions I, myself, had accepted as Truth. As it happened for Anne, finally admitting to a trusted Christian friend one of her ‘facts’ (aka – an unsubstantiated belief), she was able to see, in the light of day, what her friend was able gently but rationally to point out. Her account of thinking incorrectly helped me to look at what I had accepted as fact.
Here are were a few of my irrational thoughts mixed in with half-truths:
- Those who are good teachers LOVE the field of education and teaching
- I don’t love teaching but I enjoy some aspects of it
- Therefore, I must be a fraud
- Furthermore, I should not, AT MY AGE, attempt to move into a new educational opportunity
- Something new might involve MORE work and a greater time commitment
- I’m basically lazy anyway
- Therefore, I would again be FAKING energy and interest that I don’t have in an interview
Listening to Anne gave me pause. Maybe not ALL of my assumptions are true! Maybe it’s irrational to compare myself to the best in my field. Maybe my ‘good enough’ is sufficient for God’s purposes where I am. Maybe where I am has less to do with teaching/educational work, than with being present for my ‘neighbors’ in my daily community.
One new thought prompted another as Anne shared from her life. Maybe Satan is the source of some of these assumptions in order to discourage me from investing energy in my work life. Hm – that hadn’t occurred to me. I default to believing that my thoughts have their origin in me.
And maybe it’s not about being good enough, or the best or wildly enthusiastic. Maybe it’s about being faithful today, where I am, with what I’ve been given to do. And to do IT with His power and wisdom and energy.
A comforting image came to me as I laid down for a nap on Saturday afternoon. It was of the relief and ordinariness of just being a sheep in the Father’s fold. Just a good sheep. Voilà – my new ambition. “Maria – just be a good little sheep!”
So that is what I aspire to, this day. Not to invent/create/or pursue my own goals, but to follow my all-sufficient Shepherd. After all, He promises that as one of His sheep:
- I will lack nothing
- I will receive sufficient rest, energy and strength for the day
- I will be directed, not for my sake, but for the honor of His name and character as the Good Shepherd
- I will feast on royal food and be anointed with family oil reminding me of whose I am EVEN in the midst of enemies
Finally, to ensure that I clearly understood my Father in this matter yesterday, the Holy Spirit guided my podcast listening to a sermon in which the pastor taught from Romans 8. The verse that was for me was verse 14:
“For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God”
Working backwards, I reasoned thus: Since I know that I have been adopted into God’s family and am a co-heir with Jesus, my brother, then ipso facto, the Spirit DOES lead me. The Greek word is ‘ago’ (Strongs # 71) and it can mean COMPEL, DRIVE, BRING. Much stronger words, then ‘lead’, wouldn’t you say?
If God is sovereign, then I can trust Him to drive me or keep me where He wants me. And concerning this other job possibility I WILL turn over the next card and do what is at hand, this day, but I will pray to remember NOT to pre-occupy myself with the future.
Can anyone relate?
Oct 26, 2014 @ 22:18:49
Boy, can I relate!!
Lol, I find myself coming back to this Truth over and over again! But I realize now that it is because I AM a sheep, and that is what sheep do- wander off, clueless as to the present situation and what it offers, if I only would be willing to look up at my surrounds and embrace where I am at this moment. Instead I spend my energy and time trying to remove myself from where God has placed me for His Purpose for this particular time and season- simply because, it’s not what I desired or find satisfying at the moment. So . . . . Having recognized this fact, I have refocused on “one thousand gifts” once again. Taking one day at time, moment by moment waiting and watching in Wonder of where I am right now- embracing opportunities- small and special. But, I am sure, I will begin to wander off again in the future- and He will Faithfully chide me with The hook of His Staff and redirect me once again firmly but Lovingly as always! 😀
Tough at times- for sure . . .I just try to remember that each day, each moment, has a Purpose for Him and for me. . . . Love you Maria. Prayers continue on Mondays!! 🙂
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Romans 12:2
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Oct 27, 2014 @ 00:02:23
Kim – I like your default to practicing thanksgiving. I have to repent every time I complain – too – that is is not what I desired……It’s good to know we’re just a sheep! Thanks for writing!
Oct 26, 2014 @ 22:38:18
Thanks for your missive! I had been missing you today.
I said no to one job and yes to another within a few days (Mine are not paid ones, of course!) You think things through way more than I do – I am more impulsive, I suspect, but I seem to know when the fit is right, and the pieces fall into place.
I said No to the responsibility of forwarding to a list of media the info about events at church. It involves timely reporting to a slew of people, delivering copy, etc. I did volunteer to do the minutes of the Communications Cte, however.
I said yes to leading the Sunday school class for adults of all ages during Advent: 5 weeks, facilitating discussions of the Incarnation in some of the people in the events of Jesus’ birth. I have been inwardly unhappy about the way our regular teacher leads us, and I hope I can do better! (I do have 10 years of experience leading adult classes. Kids scare me to death!!
God moves us where he wants us and equips us for what He wants us to do.
Meanwhile I am turning out table runners for two “craft” sales, and for gift-giving. I am sewing buttons on the most recent 4 and have four or five to cut out. Will send some pictures.
Nice to see that good picture of two hard-working men – on FB!
From one sheep to another: blessings of the comfort of the Shepherd!
Oct 27, 2014 @ 00:03:28
Trish – good for you for saying NO and for saying YES to teaching adults – I KNOW you are gifted there. And I admire your craft talent! Good for you.
Love,
maria
PS: yes – it was a fun picture to capture Mike & little Noah following his grandpa around.
Oct 26, 2014 @ 23:47:58
Maria – Just to say, thank you for this and I will write properly tomorrow, sleep calls for now, already too late. Love Jill
Oct 27, 2014 @ 02:20:57
I too can relate. Today my mother and I went to the cemetery where my dad is buried. Beautiful fall day in the Ozarks, and his crypt overlooks rolling hills. As mom and I read the crypts of the other veterans and their spouses, we cried. But we also laughed. One said, “Lampe, Eugene H. 1930-2014. Golden Years? My foot!” Turns out there are a lot of funny crypt messages we hadn’t noticed before because we were too sad. Another was of a couple where the wife died and the husband is still alive. Her crypt message? “This place for our next date.”
How does this relate to worry? Someday we will have perspective on today’s worries that we don’t have right now. Just that knowledge helps me sleep at night. I’ll understand someday, so I don’t have to understand now.
I pray you sleep well, Maria, because you are a woman after God’s heart. Jobs come and go, but our Lord is eternal.
Oct 27, 2014 @ 13:57:19
Mary – thanks for YOUR perspective. That is something I never thought of, about perspective. And your final truth – that jobs come and go but God…..
Oct 27, 2014 @ 02:23:21
Whoops, Maria, I forgot to click the little box to get notification of your reply! Sorry! I just saw it before I clicked reply, too late.
Oct 27, 2014 @ 13:58:34
Mary – thanks for YOUR perspective. That is something I never thought of, about perspective. And your final truth – that jobs come and go but God…..