2 Cor 9:8 – And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that always having all-sufficiency in all things you may have an abundance for every good work.
This is my 3rd year teaching one particular French class and I have let this class color my school life. I live with daily discouragement. When I teach their class, I feel inadequate as a French teacher. It’s partly because of their personalities and partly because I have not yet developed sufficient skills with TPRS® (teaching proficiency and reading through story-telling), the foreign language methodology I use for French.
They are a quiet group of students with little inclination to use their imaginations. Their lack of participatory energy makes my skills all the more necessary to carry the class. I feel like a stand-up comedian whose jokes fall flat. It’s uncomfortable. My French 1s and 2s are very imaginative and eager to create stories. It’s easy to work with their momentum and interest. We play a mutual game, this tossing language back and forth. Class with those two levels is productive and satisfying because the burden is shared.
My daily negative evaluation and self-talk is ongoing. But so are my prayers. My verse this week has been Paul’s encouraging words meant to assure us that we risk nothing by sowing a lot. If we sow much, we will reap much, because it’s God who causes the increase. Let me assure you that I sow plentifully and pour myself into this class and still feel pathetic as a teacher.
I’ve been talking to God a lot these days. My conversation has been something like the elder brother – “Lord, I’m working really hard, reading what other practitioners write, trying new things and I’m frustrated. I pray continuously and acknowledge that I am helpless and needy. You know that I have limited time and can only invest so much into lesson prep. I’m offering the widow’s mite, the 5 loaves and 3 fishes, depending on you to make it be enough. I’m not even asking for leftovers. Just make what I have to offer be enough!!!! Why don’t you help me? It’s not fair!!” I can be VERY whiny!!
But this morning I had a glimmer. Something worked well in French 2 and I saw how I might be able to apply it to French 3. Could it be that God is letting me just stew and struggle against the waves and find my way? I don’t want that. I want the rough waters to part. I want smooth sailing. I want to feel like I’m a competent teacher with skills that always work. I don’t like living like one of those salmon struggling to make her way up stream. I don’t like being the caterpillar pushing against the cocoon. In short, I don’t like on-going flailing, depending on God and waiting for His help. But maybe more is at stake in my struggle than just feeling comfortable with my skills.
This morning I was reading in Charles Spurgeon about a time when a heaviness would not lift. He had been feeling despondent and finding no sin to repent of, he wondered at his depressed state of mind. He repeatedly asked God to restore to him a state of thankfulness and joy. As it happened, a very troubled man came to him for help that Sunday after services. Because Spurgeon had been feeling so empty, he was actually able sufficiently to identify with the man’s feelings and offer him Gospel hope. Now he saw why God had allowed him to remain discouraged. He would not have been able to connect as well with the miserable man who sought him out. Spurgeon’s conclusion was that sometimes God causes us to feel a certain way for the benefit of someone else. If we belong to Him, we should submit to however God chooses to use us.
So, dear Lord, I will labor on and trust that you know what you’re doing with me and this French class. May your will be done!
Oct 29, 2010 @ 17:17:11
Dear Maria, thank you so much for sharing your struggles. I am certain that your openness will be encouraging to many, such as myself, who haven’t yet poured ourselves fully into TPRS yet recognize the benefits. It’s important to know that discouragement is part of the process as well. I just had a discouraging day at school because I planned what seemed to me to be a beautiful, cohesive, stellar lesson, only to be impeded by both lack of technology at school and lack of time for full implementation. Was it at least worth the try? I think so. Next time I know how to anticipate some possible problems and can think about how to roll with them. I also just had a student at school tell me, “Frankly, I’m a bit frustrated that we haven’t learned to conjugate verbs yet.” I explained to him that he HAS been using conjugated verbs; we just haven’t done grammar traditionally. So, I realize there’s adjustment all around.
What strikes me most about your conversation with the Lord is your honesty. Obviously, you are very close to Him! The Lord wants us to lay it out to Him. He can read our hearts, but when we choose to spend time with Him, even if we complain, we grow in relationship with Him and learn to “see” things His way, which is always what’s best for us or others. I constantly have to remind myself that He sees the bigger picture. I recently had to go to traffic court. What frustrated me most was that I kept thinking of all the crime going on and serious violations, yet here I was again, seemingly (to me) singled out for a minor infraction. What I learned that day was that the Lord is looking out for me AND I had the strange but privileged opportunity to pray for the officer who pulled me over as he called out sick that day.
I recently talked with my pastor about some family issues leading me to lack of self-control and anger. He shared some words of wisdom he once heard from a retreat leader. You’ve heard the question “How Big is your God?” when faced with significant life challenges, well, this priest asked, “How small is your Life?” We lose sight of our mission and purpose in life when we reduce our life to small details that at times control us, our actions and our emotions. OUr Life and our God are so much Bigger!
One of my favorite prayers is one by Archbishop Oscar Romero, in which he reminds us that God is the master gardener. We plant seeds, we nurture and tend, but we may never see the fruits of our labor, but not to worry, the Lord, in His time, brings forth abundant fruit from the labors of His faithful.
Oct 29, 2010 @ 17:46:25
Michelle – thank you for your insight and your sharing about your day. We teachers are very hard on ourselves! I understand your feeling about being singled out…but God cares about our sanctification…and wants us to obey little laws as unto Him..and you’re probably right – you got to pray for cop who pulled you over.
Interesting about your student wanting to know the specific structure of verbs…we’re all wired differently. He might end up being a FL teacher one day.
As I walked into my first french class today, I reminded myself that no matter how it goes…the outcome does NOT define me! I am a child of God..a daughter of the king….I get my identify from belong to God, not for my performance. That helped me relax a bit…