Last week I took up the topic of decision-making…
and claimed that there were 2 categories. The first kind I developed had to do with reliance on a subjective FEELING to guide a choice. I shared how our son stressed over 2 ‘good’ choices: stay at the current college or transfer. He couldn’t decide off the bat, so as a new Christian, he tossed the decision into God’s lap and asked Him to give him a sign. This divine nod would be a sense of knowing or perhaps peace about one path over the other. The second category of decisions involved one in which I had made up my mind to LEAVE my current school. What I was asking God for concerned timing, when I would budge.
I’ve been reflecting about our most current set of decisions that faced my husband and me. As I have written about before, we decisively chose to leave Virginia, after raising our boys and burying my dad. We actually had TRIED to move multiple times once my care-dependent father died in 2006. Mike was gazing at 6 1/2 more years of civil service in a joy-less, energy-sapping environment. And God kept shutting those doors, by NOT granting Mike a civil service job elsewhere.
(The ‘un-success’ of 3-5 job applications over a period of several years is actually encouraging. It tells me that God intervenes when our prayerful attempts to move in a direction are NOT His plan)
But when we chose to move to Western North Carolina, the doors did swing open. We took our time, studied the situation, prayed continually, fixed up our house, did a job search for a French-teaching job for me and looked for a mountain cabin we could afford. In addition, Mike prepared and launched a consulting business that would combine his skill set, his experience, and his contacts over the previous 38 years since he matriculated into West Point.
The decisions were made – the waiting began.
Here’s is what I’m learning:
All of life is waiting. As obedient children, we ask God for something (He commands us to pray for what we need!)…we wait…the waiting comes to an end, one way or another. We move on to the next need(s).
But there is a godly way to wait and a sinful wait to wait. We can be SO focused on what we are waiting for, that IT becomes more important to us than God! Not only does that profoundly insult God and reduce Him to a blessing machine, it robs US of fellowship with Him and much joy.
A beloved friend wrote this about waiting:
Who would’ve thought that “waiting” is part of God’s plan and is for our excitement and pleasure!
Hundreds of books have probably been written on prayer and waiting, but I’ll leave you with one thought as I close this piece, (and by the way, God DID sell our house, procure me a job and lead us to a perfect cabin up in the hills- we’re still waiting for Mike’s clients as he faithfully does all he can!).
Waiting has to do with patience. And the New Testament often uses the term, ENDURANCE, to mean patience. Strong’s Greek #5281 (hypomone) can be translated AS : “a patient, steadfast waiting for”. Now with that in mind, read this verse from Luke 21:19: By your patience, you will gain your souls.
God wants us to develop that permanent part of us, our soul, that moves into eternity. Doesn’t that put a different spin on our decisions, our prayers, our waiting? All of life is waiting because all of a Christian’s life is soul-development. But waiting doesn’t have to preclude enjoying God’s presence each moment on Earth. Why not seek Joy in God daily? Isn’t that what awaits us in heaven – closer and more multi-dimensional fellowship with God, joy IN His presence?
I believe that ALL our prayer requests, whether they have to do with trials or desires, are meant to grow our patient trust in Him. And that quiet confidence grows our souls. So whether I’m waiting for this or that, I pray that the Holy Spirit will remind me that I can worship God NOW, in the moment, in the midst of waiting. I don’t want to miss a single gift. I want my life to SHOW that HE is what I value most, NOT the thing I’m waiting for.
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